Monday, June 29, 2009

Measles or maybe not afterall..


This was what i had two weeks ago and i had to quarantine myself for one whole freaking week for fear of measles! This picture i got courtesy from the internet but looks exactly like the spots which i had on my body. Thank god, my face was spared but i can't say the same for my whole body including hands and legs! It was darn itchy as well so i had to refrain from scratching but ironchef was so sweet, he went and bought pinetarsol for me to shower with, solosite for me to apply on my rashes and antihistamine to take to stop the itch!

This happened on an innocent Sunday morning when i woke up and saw these spots on my arms and back..realizing that these were not my typical rashes, i made a quick dash to the medical centre which was a 15 mins walk away. The doctor was more worried that it was meningoccocal but confirmed it wasn't so sent me home. I woke up on Monday and the rashes got worse, they were darker and spread to all part of my upper body so decided to see my GP instead and went to his clinic for a second opinion. His first reaction was to have me undergo a blood test but he did mention that it looked similar to measles. That was the start of my fear. I have 2 children at home so i was worried for them more than anything else.

A few days later, my test results were out and they weren't measles to my surprise! It was an influenza infection! Now..i don't understand what that meant cause i didn't have the atypical symptoms of a cold or flu but it was just so weird!

Anyway, the measles have come and gone..and i am just ecstatic to be able to leave my house and go out and enjoy the nice sunshine!! How depressing it is to stay at home and not go out!

Well..back to my normal routine..kids, kindy, cleaning...and the vicious cycle never ends..

Saturday, June 13, 2009

Feeding my drama addiction

So there i was sitting on my couch on a Friday night with both kids in bed at 7.30pm which is not often they do that and deciding to myself on what i should do when suddenly it hit me..YES..www.mysoju.com. This website was given to me by my friends who told me about it..apparently i can watch any dramas i want online from HK, Japan to Korean and even Taiwanese so yes, this is the night to do that..

So it was a choice between a hong kong show or a korean one when i decided to opt for a korean one, besides the actor is HOT! The title of the show, Autumn Tale. It is a story between a close knit family and their two children who are are close to one another when one day through an accident discovers that their daughter is not their real daughter because they were switched accidently in the hospital. So this family is from a well to do family whereelse the other family is from a struggling poor family. Anyways, i was watching through episode 1..2..then it got really interesting..then come episode 3 &4...i started crying..like all korean dramas..the producers do know the right buttons to press cause i like had to cry in every episode and in episode 5..i got really angry at one of the characters in the movie SOOO..me being impatient..decided to cheat.

I went immediately to the last episode!! Boy..was that a MAJOR MISTAKE!! I ended up crying like a PIG..and Iron chef was there just sittting down and laughing all the way!! haha..ok, i thought it was going to be a happy ending ok..so that was why i thought i would see the ending so i would be happy and then start again..but little did i know...it was going to be soo SAD and unfair!! so much so.i told ironchef..i am not watching it again..the ending is just or even sadder than the beginning and he couldn't resist laughing at me AGAIN!!

Thank goodness, i woke up this morning without swollen eyes! sigh..note to myself..
MUST LEARN TO CHOOSE MOVIES WISELY!!

Friday, June 12, 2009

Winter is definately here..

It has been so cold lately that i am glad i am not working! I hate dragging myelf out of bed in the wee hours of the morning and having to walk out of the door in the freezin cold! let's see...our morning temperatures are now between 3-6 degrees but our afternoons are much better. Today is an exception..because it is soo cloudy and the sun is not shining..the temp is only 13 degrees but feels so much colder than that and the wind..oh my gosh...the wind has its way of seeping through your jeans to your skin and yikes!! i hate it when that happens...so now i am just hybernating at home with my heater on and a nice warm blanket on me...AHH..BLISS!!

An update on my personal goal, i have finally lost 10kg! YES!! 10kg!! WOOHOO!!! I started my aim of loosing weight when i found myself putting on excessively and knew i had to take action so i signed up for the gym..and like the saying goes..no pain, no gain! I have 5 more kg to go in order to achieve my ideal weight. Although my BMI still indicates that I am healthy but i want to achieve more than that. Also, I plan to eat like a pig when i fly back to Malaysia for the holiday so now is my time to loose all that weight before i gain them back again and NO, i am not going to regret if i gain weight again because it is not often that i am going back and i know i can loose the weight again when i fly back..so YES..all my favourite food...HERE I COME SOOON!!

Friday, June 5, 2009

My teeth


i tried my best to take this picture at an angle with the lights behind it. This is an x-ray of how my teeth looks like and as you can see from the bottom left, my wisdom tooth is at a 90 degrees angle impacting my other teeth.

Well, i had my tooth extracted yesterday. It is the second tooth from the uppper left if you can see it from my picture. The whole procedure went well if you ask me, i was in at 10.15am and out by 10.45am. My left side of my mouth was still numb from the procedure and about 2pm, i finally felt the pain! but don't ask me what the dentist used or how many injections did i get because i had my eyes CLOSED throughout the whole procedure!!

My only recollection was the pushing and tugging felt so similar to my childbirth experience, only difference was this was just a tooth! My dentist was really good and gentle because i had cold, sweaty palms when i went in and she was just so reassuring. I came out from the dentist with a sheet of paper- Extraction Instructions. Really professional i must admit with point form instructions on what to do in the next 48 hours after the extraction and the clinic will ring me today to make sure i am ok! haha..all this trouble for a tooth extraction!

Anyways, retail therapy helped me in my pain..hahah..i went shopping with Rita and since it was the EOFS sales going on everywhere at the moment, it was bliss! I couldn't eat anything solid for 24 hours so it was just pumpkin soup for lunch and porridge for dinner..and now my stomach is rumbling and i am starving!! I think i can eat a whole COW if it is in front of me now!!

Oh well, one down...one more to go! I don't think i am ready just yet for another extraction..hmm..will wait for a few more weeks before i go to the oral surgeon! Yes, i was referred to an oral surgeon because extractions of wisdom tooth are a more complicated process..sigh..such is life!!

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Two very interesting articles that caught my attention

Why we had to leave — George CN Lee
MAY 27 — It has been two years since I left my adored country to seek my fortune Down Under. A year ago my family decided to settle down here.
Throughout the two years since I have been away, I have followed the social, economic and political backdrops in Malaysia via both the mainstream and alternative electronic media. Strangely, I have been keeping close tabs with what is happening back home much more than when I was physically present in Malaysia.
It hurts not being close to what is going on as the love for Malaysia has not transformed in any way though like many of my friends (there are now seven of us who have settled Down Under — six information technology consultants and one accountant), we had to leave.
As I recollect the reasons we left home, there were several contributors to our departure.
On the economic front, we were getting exasperated with the high standard of living and nuisances surrounding us. Pictured the high cost ordinary citizens had to bear once we stepped out of our home, for example, the petrol price, tolls, parking, and ordinary fast moving consumer goods (baby milk power).
More importantly, there were no worthwhile measures taken to address to problems. Businesses, traders and government agencies took turn to inflate ordinary folks’ sentiments by price increases and intractable policies. As things were getting expensive, the quantity and quality eroded.
We envisaged (from past experience) that the government would not do much to solve the people’s livelihood. We just did not like to be constricted in such a manner. We decided we wanted to create another lifestyle in a more structured society where the government would be more willing to help.
Socially, there were prevailing emotional distresses that we had to endure, for example, rude drivers, traffic hold-up (drivers who shaped their own rules), escalating crime rate (witnessed several snatch thieves in action and the grieved for the victims but police were nowhere to be seen) and broad disgruntlement among friends about living in Malaysia.
I was also appalled by the mind-sets of several government departments such as the Ministry of Education, Inland Revenue, and Dewan Bandaraya when I had to carry out numerous errands. Government servants were rude, unconscientiously and irresponsible. The systems in place in most of the country’s organisations left a lot to be desired.
Any rational individual would start to ask whether it is a place worth living. The government had no sense of urgency to address the contorted public order and peace. We honestly felt unsafe to venture out of our homes even though the mamak stalls were near.
Politically, Malaysia has never been able to be isolated with the persistent racial issues. The government and its component parties were always practising double-faced roles of subduing and fanning race sentiments. Intellectuals like us could see the schema behind.
We knew very well that those in the politics would prepare to sacrifice the well-being of ordinary folk for their greed though these people in power carried a different message on their lips. These people needed to safeguard their political livelihoods as they are nobody without power.
Two years have passed. It hurts to watch from here when people continue to stand up against unjust systems but are frustrated by the tough and insensitive stance adopted by the government and its ruthless police force.
Look at what has transpired in the Perak debacle. Forgive my ignorance in politics but personally I am sad to see how the authorities handle the situation. We just cannot use the approach during the 1987 Operasi Lalang to suppress and oppress the people of today.
We are living in the 21st century and too many things have changed. The government is just too conceited to admit and discover a different strategy to tackle political issues. Just look at the sweeping action and arrogant speeches delivered by the people (OCPD from Brickfields, gosh !) representing the government.
How can we teach our children about humbleness and politeness if the politicians seem to have a different school of thought. With the latest happening in the Malaysia scene, we have no qualms that we made the appropriate decision two years ago even though the choice was difficult and agonising.
Many fellow Malaysians have no alternative but to brush aside all the inconveniences. Many brave ones have embarked to fight against the issues and unfairness. I salute all these brave ordinary folk and wish that they have a copious amount of energies to carry them through.
Two years ago, it had come to a juncture where I could no longer sweep all these tribulations under the rug and the eventuality was to go away. However, everyone has their own temperaments and beliefs. We would love to do something such as creating awareness for the betterment of Malaysia if we can find the platform and opportunity.
Having lived Down Under for two years, it puzzled me why the systems here can be so efficiently coordinated and run. The councils and government are very much in control. Most importantly their feedback and replies are prompt and updated. Filing tax returns here is convenient and fast that I got my refund back within 14 days consistently for the past two years.
Here, we could be paying more taxes but I get some back via the structured family assistance allowance, free medical benefit and very reasonable school fees, etc. Lately, we even obtained a stimulus payout from the tax office due to the effects of the economic downturn. These measures have received great appreciation from the people.
The obvious question here is why can’t Malaysia adopt some of the systems so successful in place here. One need not be superhuman to get things going except dedication which Malaysia is so lacking. I can see that the Penang state government is starting to perk up the government delivery systems that are conspicuously missing in the Malaysian governance structure.
Many of the systems in Malaysia are more form than substance. One of the most important components that is noticeably missing is the integration between the different government bodies. Conversely, this is so successful incorporated Down Under which has curtailed loopholes and acted as a check and balance mechanisms for the local government.
Ordinary Malaysians would like to be treated uniformly. If there is any trace of the adverse happening, that would widen the disparity gap. What the government should be doing in my modest opinion is to have a mechanism to encourage the mediocre group to catch up and this should be attained not by protecting or spoon-feeding the group.
The government should have a far-sighted view and not worry about temporary setbacks (not depend on opinion polls as they would go up when the end results are derived). Just like us, we were “compelled” to learn things in a hard way after we arrived in a new place.
Initially it was hard but eventually we triumphed. Frankly, things are not so hard but politicians like to think in a complex manner. It is time for the Malaysia government to take stock and revert to basics else we could expect a change of the guard in four years time though it is probably too late now.
George CN Lee is a reader from Down Under (Australia).
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Ex-Malaysians and their right to speak
By James Chin (The Malaysian Insider)


One of the more interesting letters I have read in recent times was a letter from a Malaysian, George Lee, who has migrated to Australia. In this letter, he basically badmouthed the entire country and waxed lyrical about all the wonderful things about his newly adopted country, Australia.
This sort of letters always attract a lot of comments, some rude, while other readers gave the reasons why they are still in Malaysia, despite being discriminated against as a non-Malay.
The number of Malaysian taking up permanent residence elsewhere is, at best, guesswork since they will not tell the Malaysian government that they have PR overseas.
However, we can make an educated guess. A workshop held a few years ago at a Chinese-based think tank in Kl suggest that since 1970, more than a million Malaysians have moved overseas permanently. More than 80 per cent are non-Malays and, in particular, Chinese.
The reasons are varied but centre around three basic issues.
First, they feel they have no future given the open racial discrimination and pro-Malay policies of the government.
Second; they can earn better money and enjoy a higher quality of life in other countries, especially in Western countries such as US, UK and Australia.
Third, they want their children to have an equal chance when it comes to tertiary education. They feel that with the official and unofficial quota system in Malaysia, their children can never get a place in a local university or any other government-funded institution.
Needless to say, the loss to the nation is tremendous. Those who move overseas are the ones with the talent, capital and skills. This is why they can get PR outside Malaysia.
When this was pointed out to a former deputy PM, he said “good riddance”. Hence, we can take it that the government is not very worried about losing these highly skilled people since they are non-Malays and are not going to support the BN anyway.
A far more interesting question is, do these ex-Malaysians have the right to say things about Malaysia now that they have a comfortable home outside Malaysia? Do they have the right to badmouth us on the NEP, racial politics, religious discrimination, etc, given that they have “escaped” all these problems?
Many of those who commented on George’s letters appeared to think he has lost the right to say things about Malaysia since he did not stay back and “fight” the system. Many would argue that he is a quitter and hence, has given up his right to criticise the system.
There are also those who think he should have the right to criticise, with some readers actually thinking that he should tell the whole world what is really happening in Malaysia.
The whole debate is interesting as this question would never apply to a Malay who has moved overseas. Yes, my friends, there are many professional Malays who have migrated or taken up PR overseas. I have personally met some of these people.
Despite being the “chosen ones” in Malaysia, they have decided to move overseas.
In today’s political climate, the moment you criticise the country from outside Malaysia, there is an unwritten assumption that you must be a non-Malay who is getting back at the country for the “sufferings” under the NEP.
Yet, one can argue that this successful group who managed to migrate overseas suffered the least since they got out. The only “suffering” they endured is the emotional scars of having to move to a new country and not enjoying the extended family network.
My own take on the situation is that an ex-Malaysian has as much right to say things about this country as the any person living in Malaysia.
They may badmouth Malaysia but the very fact they cannot keep their mouth shut shows how deeply they feel for this land in the first place. Many of them still make regular visits to Malaysia, and many refuse to take up foreign citizenship, preferring to retain only PR status in their adopted countries.
What is needed is a rational discussion on what is said rather than blanket condemnation for those who speak from outside the country.
If we are doing the right things in this country, why should we be afraid of those who throw stones at us?
So for those ex-Malaysian living outside the country, please do comment on what is happening to Malaysia. Your insights as someone outside the country may even help us to see what we cannot see from inside the country.

I have decided to express my own opinions in my blog later...